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Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage
Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage
Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage
Schumacher, Eric

Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage

ISBN: 9781784989040
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Book Description:

This 31-day devotional gives biblical comfort and practical support to men processing miscarriage. The loss of a baby in the womb can leave the father reeling, as well as the mother. He may feel confused, helpless, lonely, deeply sad, or just numb.

As readers draw alongside Jesus in the pages of Luke's Gospel, they'll find help to process their grief and to address questions they may be too afraid to ask. There's also lots of practical help on how to care both for themselves and for their family in the aftermath of miscarriage.

Eric Schumacher writes with sympathy and compassion as someone who has experienced the grief of multiple pregnancy losses making this book a great way to reach out to men who are suffering in this way. Includes foreword by Paul David Tripp and contributions from Nate and Lore Wilbert, Jenn Hesse, and Brian Croft. There is also space for journaling.

Held is a similar resource, comforting women experiencing the sorrow of miscarriage.

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Contents:
Foreword (Paul David Tripp)
Introduction
1. Am I the Only One Who Has Ever Experienced This?
2. Have I Really Lost a Child?
3. How Do I Deal with So Much Uncertainty?
4. What Is Jesus Doing?
5. What Does It Look Like to Honor Jesus In This?
6. Does God Know What I'm Going Through?
7. How Do I Fight the Temptation to Despair?
8. Am I Too Sinful for Jesus to Love?
9. Is It Ok for Me to Take Time Off Work?
10. Why Won't Jesus Bless Us?
11. What Do I Do with My Anger?
12. Will Jesus Raise My Child from the Dead?
13. What Should I Do with My Confusion?
14. How Do I Care for My Wife?
15. Can I Trust Jesus' Timing?
16. What Do I Really Believe About Jesus?
17. Are We Making Too Much of This?
18. Is it Ok to Ask for Help?
19. Is This Miscarriage a Curse?
20. What About Sex?
21. Does My Grief Make Me Useless to Jesus?
22. How Should I Care for My Other Children?
23. Can Anything Relieve My Torment?
24. What Do I Do Now?
25. Am I a Downer to My Friends?
26. Have I Failed Jesus?
27. Is There Any Hope?
28. How Do I Cope?
29. Is It Appropriate to Seek Pastoral Care?
30. Is It Okay If We Decide to Stop Trying to Have Children?
31. "Peace to You"
Appendices:
    Practical Advice for Husbands (Nate and Lore Wilbert)
    Understanding the Medical Side of Miscarriage (Jenn Hesse)
    Funerals, Burials, and Remembering (Brian Croft)

Author:

Eric M. Schumacher is a husband, father, and songwriter who works in full-time ministry serving pastors. He is the author of Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage, and co-authored Worthy and Jesus & Gender with Elyse Fitzpatrick. Eric received his MDiv from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He lives in Iowa with his wife and five children. Find him online at emschumacher.com.

Endorsements:

Finally-a book that deals with the grief experienced by fathers who have lost children to miscarriage. This book will help men to grieve with hope and to minister to their wives and families at the same time. It is honest, biblical, practical, and timely.
--Russell D. Moore, Editor in Chief, Christianity Today

This is the devotional I wish someone had given to my husband when we went through our miscarriage. It's so good. So needed. So important. So tender. Eric named so many unnamed things.
--Christine Caine, Founder, A21 and Propel Women

Eric knows firsthand the confusion, questions, pain, and emotions that can be associated with miscarriage. He writes of the hope that held and comforted him… and still does. is theologically rich and offers wisdom, hope, comfort, and healing for men grieving miscarriage. A must-have for clergy too.
--Justin S. Holcomb, Episcopal Minister; Seminary Professor This is the only book I have ever seen that is written for the father of a miscarried child. And it's a great one. Dig in, allow God to meet you in the pages of this book, and you will find healing and comfort. And share it with every dad you know.
--Dave and Ann Wilson, Co-hosts, Family Life Today

Miscarriage affects couples, not just mothers. Men convince themselves that they need to be the strong ones and muscle on unaffected. Not so. Eric's tour of Luke's Gospel draws out pastoral applications which show real men how to grieve, care, love, grow, and understand following the tragedy of a miscarriage. There's nothing else like this book for men.
--Adrian Reynolds, Head of National Ministries, FIEC UK

Imagine if, upon learning of your experience with miscarriage, a wise pastor who had suffered similar grief committed to devoting an entire month to caring for you, opening the word of God with you, and helping your tired mind apply it to your burning questions, doubts, and shame. Imagine him giving you prompts and space to help you process and voice your struggle. That's what Eric has done in this deeply pastoral, unwaveringly biblical, mercifully candid, and incredibly insightful devotional.
--Abbey Wedgeworth, Author, Held

It is a number of years since my wife and I lost a child through miscarriage, and yet I still found Eric's book deeply comforting. In this particular and peculiar grief we need to see Jesus Christ in all his close compassion, costly love and kind sovereignty; and it is to Christ that Eric takes us daily. I unreservedly recommend this book.
--John Hindley, Pastor of BroadGrace Church, Norfolk; author of Serving Without Sinking

The book that you hold in your hands is a precious gift from a brother who knows what it's like to be thrilled with conception and then crushed by miscarriage. While women are generally familiar with walking through loss from miscarriage, the heartache of the father is rarely, if ever, acknowledged. Which is why this book is so precious-such a gift. Eric not only acknowledges the loss you're feeling, he's walked through it himself and has found Christ faithful even here. I heartily recommend it!
--Elyse M. Fitzpatrick, Author, Give Them Grace

Additional Information:

Cover: Hardcover
Number of Pages: 190
Publisher: The Good Book Company
Publication Date: 2023